It took me 3 years to understand
I’ve always been an admirer of beauty. What i mean by beauty is anything that make me take one step back and breathe steadily, 1 2 3. Flamingos feathers, babies’ smile with their first tooth, pure science which appliance can be witnessed with my own eyes, well organized shelf, honesty, different characters of people, implicit words perfectly combined, secrets, vivid imaginations, sight of sunrise when you’re on a 23 hours flight, ellie saab dresses, mystical paradise like Mykonos, quirky architectures with sea view like Cinque Terre and Santorini, and galactic prints, women who believes in herself for woman is a symbol of human beauty, stubborn minds of men with ambition.
Say that you want to be beautiful, be attractive. Recognition is basic human needs. Then you wonder what makes attractive people attractive. Sweetheart, the more you worship those pretties and pity yourself, then the worse you will feel and that will reflect through how people sees you.
Focus in yourself. Ego is one of the components of human behavior. When you walk, think of the person you ought to be. Let your experiences, thoughts and wants shine through your presence. Think beauty. Your vision shall reflect through your eyes. Eyes are the window to the soul, and when you try to occupy the soul with anything less than yourself then the eyes will fail to do its job.
“I can get my head turned by a good-looking guy as much as the next girl. But sexy doesn’t impress me. Smart impresses me, strength of character impresses me. But most of all, I am impressed by kindness. Kindness, I think, comes from learning hard lessons well, from falling and picking yourself up. It comes from surviving failure and loss. It implies an understanding of the human condition, forgives its many flaws and quirks. When I see that in someone, it fills me with admiration.”
Lisa Unger, Beautiful Lies